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Post by Deleted on Apr 11, 2013 19:50:12 GMT -5
It's tough. And it feels like there's nothing you can do. But if you love him like that, you should be willing to do anything. I've been on the opposite side of this situation. My girlfriend didn't say anything, when I loved her like you love Joel. If she would have, things may have been different. My point is, and I beg you to do it, tell him how you feel. He may not know he's doing anything wrong at all. I didn't. And before you think too much about it, get an answer. I don't want you being upset, sort it out. It won't fix itself.. Hope you feel better soon, really.
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Post by Deleted on Apr 11, 2013 20:00:38 GMT -5
First I must say this amuses me, only because it's something me and my girlfriend have gone though, so now on a more serious note: I understand what you are going through right now Jade. All I can say is talk to him, let him know how you are feeling, how much he means to you, and lastly get him to talk. I know that getting most guys to talk of 'feelings' can be a pain in the ass, don't give up on trying to get him to talk, just don't push to hard as that might push him away. Also remember that relationships come with moments like this, normally something like that can make a relationship stronger, if everything works out for the best that is, and I hope it does, Best of luck to you Jade. :3
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Post by Deleted on Apr 11, 2013 20:08:21 GMT -5
I felt the exact same.. But where you are now is not a dead end. Don't look at it like that. Don't think of it like that. It may be a harsh bend, but not a dead end. He'll think your content with just hearing him say a few words. You need to show him you're serious, and are worried, and.. Aren't afraid to make the right decision. A guy is never always gonna be on 100% feelings mode. If that's what your hoping for, it's a lost cause. But maybe what he says is true. Maybe you mean as much to him as he does to you. Maybe.. Maybe for him everything's fine.. And you are his world.
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Post by Deleted on Apr 13, 2013 2:21:30 GMT -5
jade... you can always talk to me to if you need help.. i msg you my email.
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Post by Deleted on Apr 13, 2013 2:24:29 GMT -5
and remember jade... I have been there before. and it sucks ass. =/
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